eat a protein heavy breakfast. don’t shop on shein. it’s never too late to get more educated. tell people you love them. listen to birds. go to an old growth forest. get really good at something, just to see if you can.
they put RFK jr in charge of the agency that most directly affects everything i’ve been doing in my real life career for a decade so if I start posting like i’ve clamped car batteries to my nipples it’s because i have done exactly that
Please do not get health information from the CDC for the foreseeable future. If you are an American, depending on your state, the state health department may have more accurate information. States in the Governor’s Public Health Alliance are relatively trustworthy.
I’ve personally been using Dr. Kaetlyn Jetelina’s newsletter as a less-grim way to keep up with US public health news. It’s on substack unfortunately, but the information is solid.
I know this is not at the top of the administration’s crimes. But it is one of them, and it is going to hurt a lot of people. Not much I can say but that I’m heartbroken.
if youre not in school anymore and are looking for ways to get out of the house more go to the nearest “hip” coffee shop you can that has a bulletin board with flyers on it for local events and attend any and all the ones youre able to ESPECIALLY if they’re free. this is the only actionable advice that has worked for me
lots of very good suggestions for other places to find community events in the notes, including but not limited to:
libraries, parks, rec centers, and other public amenities
craft/game/hobby specialty stores or event spaces
bars or similar venues
I know I said “if you’re not in school anymore” cause that’s me right now, but if a college/uni campus doesn’t have security requiring a student ID to get in, nothing is stopping you from just Hanging Out on the campus even if you’re not a student there lol. I do it all the time and there are flyers abound
literally just on a wall or telephone pole outside
if the only coffee shop around is starbucks, ime even Some starbucks locations have these kind of bulletin boards in them (not the drive thru ones obv). and no, you don’t have to order anything from the starbucks
instagram and facebook too unfortunately. i know i know i hate them too
also I know that it can be kind of scary or awkward to attend any events you find by yourself. thats ok though. nobody is going to hate you or think you’re weird if you don’t bring a plus one. go my scarab
ive always been willing to die on the hill of cis women being able to beat cis men in sports so nobody will ever ever make me concerned about trans women in womens sports even if i was delusional enough to believe that was a comparable situation. do i think a cis woman could beat a trans woman in fucking pickleball or whatever? Buddy I think a cis woman could beat a cis male bodybuilder in sports. You will not get me
this feels too important (and correct!!) to leave in the notes
Women outperform men in many sports, and in many instances, the men’s versions of these sports are rewritten into completely different versions so that they can’t be compared.
And if your reaction to this is “well women don’t outperform men in skills that we typically find impressive” I would implore you to think about why things women tend to be better at than men are valued less by society.
If your reaction is “well that’s cherrypicking examples, its such a small handful of formalized sports” I’d implore you to think of why so many popular sports are structured around the specific set of skills men are better at.
Because the answer starts with m and ends with isogyny.
Worth noting with olympic shooting specifically it was a mixed event, until a woman started beating them, at which point it became gendered. Gendered shooting is like gendered chess, it’s not even a game of strength.
I think most importantly, it would give us the leverage to say “no”. To walk away from bad jobs and abusive managers. To refuse to work in unsafe environments. To demand better pay.
To demand better, because the options are no longer “suck it up” or “die”.
The counter-argument: Not having UBI is in the interests of those in power who want to do anything to the people they are in power over in order to remain in power.
If the greed of the few should come before the need of the many.